You know Almost everyone wants to feel
important and also give the impression that they
are “big girls and boy”. A lot of women, in a bid
to try to impress other people and belong, have
done some “foolish” things.
We’ve all been there at some one point or the
other in our lives. It’s a position almost every
lady has found herself in at one point or the
other.
So desperate are we to create a false
impression and belong that we go way out of our
comfort zone and make a total mess of
ourselves.
The truth is that at that moment, we are feeling
cool with ourselves, thinking we are having a
swell time but later we get to realize, they are
not as cool as we thought.
Let’s take a look at some of the “dumb” things
ladies do just because they want to create a
false impression or they want to belong.
1. Shoepidity (Wearing ridiculously
uncomfortable shoes just so you look hot) : Have
you ever seen some ladies walking awkwardly on
the streets with their very high heeled shoes?
That is what we call shoepidity. It is not
comfortable in any way, you are in pains and
you’ve even got blisters but still you insist on
wearing it, trying to impress God knows who.
Some ladies would buy a shoe that’s not their
size and force themselves to wear it just
because they want to impress a certain somebody.
Ladies, why are you putting yourself
in pain because you want to belong? If you don’t
have a car and you must wear those heels to an
occasion, help yourself by wearing a comfortable
flat and carry the heels in your bag till you get to
your destination.
2. Taking private drops : A lot of ladies are guilty
of this. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying it is
wrong to take cabs but when you know you are
not buoyant enough, take a public bus. It is very
clear that taking public transport is way cheaper
but some would rather take a cab even when
they are down financially just because they want
to create this false impression that they are “big
girls”.
3. Buy things they can’t afford : Some ladies walk
into a shop and they tell them the price of
something which they know is way out of their
budget. They still go ahead to buy it, maybe
because a cute guy is standing close by or they
are with their friends and they don’t want to ‘fall
their hands’.
4. Shop at expensive stores: Dear ladies, just
because your friend shops at an expensive store
does not mean you have to follow suit. You have
no idea how she makes her money. You could
the same thing your friend bought very expensive
at that store for a cheaper price in another store.
Stay true to yourself and shop where you can
afford.
4. Buying expensive asoebi dress : Nigerians are
familiar with the Asoebi trend. Some ladies will
do anything just to be among those wearing
asoebi even if they have to borrow money. Some
ladies actually get hooked to their future
husbands during wedding especially when they
belong to asoebi ladies. Believing that they might
be one of those lucky ladies, some would buy
expensive asoebi dresses even when they have
no money to pay for it.
5. Starve yourself: Some ladies when they go out
with a guy will be forming, “I am not hungry”,
even when they are famished. Some would order
for a very light meal just so they appear posh
and classy. If you and this guy hit it off and you
become more, he’s going to one day see you
really dig into food, so quit pretending and be
you.
There’s no need trying to impress people who
don’t even care. People are going to like if they
want to, irrespective of what you do. You lose
friends by being fake. If you want to really
impress people, do something useful, which will
win you more fans rather than engage in dumb
behaviours that will hurt you and drain your
pockets.
What other “foolish” things are women guilty of?
important and also give the impression that they
are “big girls and boy”. A lot of women, in a bid
to try to impress other people and belong, have
done some “foolish” things.
We’ve all been there at some one point or the
other in our lives. It’s a position almost every
lady has found herself in at one point or the
other.
So desperate are we to create a false
impression and belong that we go way out of our
comfort zone and make a total mess of
ourselves.
The truth is that at that moment, we are feeling
cool with ourselves, thinking we are having a
swell time but later we get to realize, they are
not as cool as we thought.
Let’s take a look at some of the “dumb” things
ladies do just because they want to create a
false impression or they want to belong.
1. Shoepidity (Wearing ridiculously
uncomfortable shoes just so you look hot) : Have
you ever seen some ladies walking awkwardly on
the streets with their very high heeled shoes?
That is what we call shoepidity. It is not
comfortable in any way, you are in pains and
you’ve even got blisters but still you insist on
wearing it, trying to impress God knows who.
Some ladies would buy a shoe that’s not their
size and force themselves to wear it just
because they want to impress a certain somebody.
Ladies, why are you putting yourself
in pain because you want to belong? If you don’t
have a car and you must wear those heels to an
occasion, help yourself by wearing a comfortable
flat and carry the heels in your bag till you get to
your destination.
2. Taking private drops : A lot of ladies are guilty
of this. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying it is
wrong to take cabs but when you know you are
not buoyant enough, take a public bus. It is very
clear that taking public transport is way cheaper
but some would rather take a cab even when
they are down financially just because they want
to create this false impression that they are “big
girls”.
3. Buy things they can’t afford : Some ladies walk
into a shop and they tell them the price of
something which they know is way out of their
budget. They still go ahead to buy it, maybe
because a cute guy is standing close by or they
are with their friends and they don’t want to ‘fall
their hands’.
4. Shop at expensive stores: Dear ladies, just
because your friend shops at an expensive store
does not mean you have to follow suit. You have
no idea how she makes her money. You could
the same thing your friend bought very expensive
at that store for a cheaper price in another store.
Stay true to yourself and shop where you can
afford.
4. Buying expensive asoebi dress : Nigerians are
familiar with the Asoebi trend. Some ladies will
do anything just to be among those wearing
asoebi even if they have to borrow money. Some
ladies actually get hooked to their future
husbands during wedding especially when they
belong to asoebi ladies. Believing that they might
be one of those lucky ladies, some would buy
expensive asoebi dresses even when they have
no money to pay for it.
5. Starve yourself: Some ladies when they go out
with a guy will be forming, “I am not hungry”,
even when they are famished. Some would order
for a very light meal just so they appear posh
and classy. If you and this guy hit it off and you
become more, he’s going to one day see you
really dig into food, so quit pretending and be
you.
There’s no need trying to impress people who
don’t even care. People are going to like if they
want to, irrespective of what you do. You lose
friends by being fake. If you want to really
impress people, do something useful, which will
win you more fans rather than engage in dumb
behaviours that will hurt you and drain your
pockets.
What other “foolish” things are women guilty of?
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